Here’s a hard truth: some people want covenant results with a contract mindset. They want the fruit of loyalty without the root of commitment. But that’s not how covenant works.

A contract says, “I’m in as long as you meet my expectations.”

Covenant says, “I’m in because God connected us—and I’ve chosen to honor that.”

This applies to marriage, family, friendships, spiritual leadership—everything. Honor elevates what culture devalues. When you honor covenant, God honors you.

And let’s not forget: your mind plays a major role. If you don’t renew your mind daily, you’ll start believing that detachment is safer than devotion. You’ll protect yourself with walls instead of fighting for what’s worth keeping.